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Someone once said, wisdom has taught me that the place of prayer is not to help me run away from danger ahead or on ground, but to empower me to face dem  and be victorious.
Wisdom has taught me that the place of prayer is not to place, perishable earthly desires before God, but to make enquires as to what is God desire for my life
It can be said that there are three phases in the life of a believer,  a carrier of Christ image
Phase1 ,
The place of Gethsemane, the place whr in the midst of  trials, examinations, testing, pain, evil,  darkness, when the tendency to let go of God’s direction and will is high. You choose to go on ur knees with ur face bowed down before God in humility and surrender to His will as Jesus did in Gethsemane. Funny enof at this stage even those u feel has attained certain heights in the spirit and you ask dem direction might be found sleeping like the 3 disciples of Jesus who were sleeping instead of keeping watch .
Phase2,
The place of the cross: until you have established d place of intimacy wiv God in Gethsemane,  u cannot be fit for d cross. Instead of carrying d cross, you tend to sleep on cross, wallowing in sorrow, pain,  unfulfilment, stagnation and the likes. This is because you’ve not remained in Christ, the place of intimacy, where His choice Bcomes urs, His priorities becomes urs and His will bcoms urs. at the place of d cross everything, spiritual blessings, teachings of truth,  instructions unto righteousness,all that uve acquired from the place of intimacy will be required of u. But it is quite sad, dat at this stage most of us are found sleeping. 
Phase 3
the place of glory: 
It is often said that u must carry a cross to experience glory. U cannot get to the place of glory without experiencing d cross. Jesus endured d cross because of the eternal glory dat has been set ahead. He was able to the endure the cross because He had already made God’s will He’s and He had already acquired everything he needs to live the life the Father wants. And So He was empowered to carry the cross till “it was finished “. And from d cross He went into eternal glory,  sitting at d right hand side of God most high with His name exalted over every other name!!!!

Now the question is are you a believer? Because all this might not make sense to you if you’re not.
Do u realize that the moment u give urself Away to Christ,  u begin to experience these phases?
And if u can’t stand dem, great will be ur fall like the foolish man that built his house on the sand.

Christianity doesn’t end at being born again, in fact it has no end. So we are to abide in Christ,  establish an intimacy with God. Hold forth the Word of life even when d situation doesn’t necessarily require u to. GET Lost IN CHRIST And  NO SITUATION IN DIS WORLD EVEN D DEVIL HIMSELF WILL NOT GET YOU AS OF THE CASE OF JOB.

Ref: Matthew26:36-45
        Hebrews 12:2 let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the glory set bfr Him endured d cross, scorning its shame, now sitted at the right hand of d father.

This journal is as a result of my regular fellowship with father in reference to everything that is a part of me i.e my relationships,my familY,my academics,my vocation, and my lifestyle.

The journal started from the 19th year of my life. For every new year of my life, there are always daily messages from my Father to teach me d truth, instruct me unto righteousness, rebuke my faults and correct my errors.

As you read through these messages i pray the holyspirit gives u insight,understanding,and correct interpretations to your practical

September 13,2013.
    Sometimes in life  uve gotta step down a little or take few steps backwards in order to see further and farther
       Uve also gotta look upside down to see inside out. 

– think about it, God is  ready to deposit every bit of His glory in you. But He doesnt like to share or compete with the devil in your heart.  It hurts Him so bad that many do not even realise this i.e how much He loves us.  We need 2 move from a place of meeting to the place of encounter.

–when God looks @ the earth, HE doesnt see the world with a church,but a church with the world around

— this our Fathers business is no popularity contest, its @ SOULBIZ not showbiz

——Consciously or unconsciously your mind dictates your life and the choices you make

Your life will definitely tell a story, friends write a good 1.

SEPTEMBER 28, 2013.
GOD IS D ONLY SUGAR LALA, DAT CAN GIVE YOU ITURA. HE’S CALLING U TO WALE OH! DNT LET HIS CALL ENTER VOICEMAIL OH! AND JUST LIKE MARY’S LITTLE LAMB FOLLOW HIM EVERYWHERE HE GOES

OCTOBER,2013
The christian MANDATE- TO KNOW CHRIST AND TO MAKE HIM KNOWN!

They that know dier God shall be strong and do exploit, but they that know not their God shall be weak n be exploited by d world.

We cant fake righteousness, we cant form holiness, we can only deceive ourselves.

Righteousness is abt knowing d rules and believing in d rules. Holiness is simply abiding by those rules

NOVEMBER,2013
If u av insufficient knowledge about aw much God loves u, u’ll also have insufficient knowledge abt aw much d devil hates u

Sometimes wat we want doesnt necessarily want us buh we just force ourselves into it and force ourselves

Sometimes in life uve gotta think outta d box. Let go of social,financial,humam protocols and make optimal use of God’s divine protocols.

………..TO BE CONTINUED SHORTLY……..
                      

Authentic love nt romantatic love
Shaky foundation- shaky relationship
Zero foundation- zero relationship
Solid foundation- solid relationship
Romantic Love is not enough….
Authentic love goes beyond saying d words “I love you”….It explains it, showcases it, protects it,makes d best out of it, fulfils it…..
Guys are so smart….dey cud just lead d babe on n on…until dey are full of it….n den pass u on 2 d next…..2 d next 2 d next….den u bcom a universal charger….
Romantic love makes u blind….
Authentic love can see…it has 8eyes… 4inside n 4outside.
Insight,foresight,outsight,inside,eyesight.
Can these lady or guy make me happy 2moro
D happiness she’s giving me 2day, will it remain till 2moro n beyond…
When u base ur rela on eyesight ur marriage will bcome eyesore
Does he want a beta life/marriage dan dat of his parents… Or she wants 2 b a beta wife dan her mother was.
It doesn’t just end @ wanting it….what’s she doing abt it
How close z he to his creator…. If he’s close or he’s far away…. Dere’s nothing lyk smhw far or close…
Else He’ll wonder about life aimlessly…n he’ll carry u along
Aw prepared are you for this….z he really ready to lock up n just focus on u n u only…. If he’s nt prepared dere’ll b a lot of repairs to do…

Ask God abt d content….n not d container
Prov16v1
How do u prepare!
Financial- dnt eva go into marriage wivout having finance to tk kia of ur woman…so if u want ur woman u must prepare n focus for her finance
Domestically- cooking,cleaniness,early to rise,good habits, …..this is so regardless of ur finance or spiritual status. Don’t get married as a girl bcom a woman, get marrried as a woman bcom a wife.
If ure nt a wife u bcom a knife…
Dnt get married as a boy bcom a man…if nt instead of being a head u bcom a headache. Get married as a man bcom a husband nt as a horseman…. N ur wife bcomes a horse dat’ll ride u on her bck all d days of her life.
If u marry a boy…u’ll keep looking 4 love n u bcom ur wifes rival…
Marriage is a responsibility, if ure nt responsible for marriage dnt bother

Marriage is not just being ready for d glamour of d wedding…it’s abt labour of love
It’s nt just abt poems n sweet words of love….it’s abt love in action,attention,n affection…regardless of situations
Dnt go into marriage wiv emotions in mind…go into it wiv responsibility in mind$
Marriage is celebrating d asset of ur spouse to any1 dat’ll get odas wishing dey were u…. It is also tolerating d liability n keeping it away from anyone n den tolerating n dealing wiv it
Sisters dnt look for car owners….look for care-givers

Brothers dnt wait for d best cars n best house …..buh prepare to have dem wiv ur wife…n work hard, hand-in-hand 2wards it….

D most important thing b4 u go into marriage…is going into marriage as a selfless person…as a servant…marriage to serve…
When the man goes in2 marriage as a servant and d woman goes in as a servant…. D marriage bcoms a master marriage…one dat ppl look up to…
Buh when u go into marriage wiv selfishness…she must cook 4 me, wash 4 me, serve me n give me children, he must provide 4 me, serve me, n satisfy me…. Everything is abt ‘me’,’me’ … D marriage bcoms a turbulent 1…bcos 2 ‘me’ masters come 2geda n no 1 will bow 4 d oda.

Sunday service!

Posted: May 28, 2014 in Uncategorized

Hey guys, how was your sunday…who did you dedicate this day to… As for me, It was dedicated to the Father of fathers…yorubas call Him “baba t’oju baba lo”….eletilukara bi ajere…eledumare,arugbojo,adakedajo,awamaridi,awimayehun..aki kiitan… So much to say about Him
Well that’s whom I dedicate everyoda day to…buh this is special. how? I lay down all the mess I went through during the prev.week & the ones am scared of going through in d coming week & then He gives me a strong message,word,instruction that carries me on. I advice you to try nt to joke wiv your sundays whreva u find yourself (in church or @ home).

Going 2 church every sunday doesn’t certify dat ure christ-like… Ure just a sunday worshipper a.k.a church-goer…. What God requires of us (micah6:8) is :
To do what is JUST
To show constant LOVE
To have an humble fellowship wiv God!!!…
Don’t go to church 2day bcos its a weekly routine u do….Go 2day to fellowship with fellow believers n worship God in harmony!

a boyfriend is not what you need!

Posted: February 25, 2014 in Uncategorized

beautiful message from KESTY TIPSY! an educator and writer! read and enjoy…

Source: http://www.nigeriansinamerica.com

Every relationship has its aim, goals and aspirations, but most people, despite the fact that they know what they want from the onset, keep falling into the danger of heartbreak and rejection, thereby destroying their future and wasting time with someone they know won’t ordinarily fulfill those dreams.

 

We go into relationships with the hope of getting married to that person we claim to love but in the long run we choose to waste our time even when we know that those dreams won’t be fulfilled.

 

A woman in her twenties is ripe for marriage from all indications, but it never ceases to amaze me that despite this fact you still find such women talk of boyfriends instead of husbands. They pray to have boyfriends and because they fail to set out a clear goal for themselves, they feel a boyfriend is just what they need.

 

When you come across a guy, if the goal you set out for yourself is that of finding a husband, the moment you sense the guy is coming with a boyfriend attitude there’s no point trying to see what he’s up to. It simply shows both of you are not on the same page at that point. The best thing to do is to let him go. Failure to do so will amount to you wasting your time with someone that isn’t ready for what you want and leaving you hurt in the end.

 

When women go into such union knowing fully well that they are not on the same page, they later turn to complain that men are all the same forgetting that what brought them that hurt is because they never defined what they wanted in that relationship.

 

Does it make sense to you if a guy wants to get married and you are not ready deep down or the goal you are setting is not towards that direction don’t you think he’s just wasting his time with you.

 

I know many of you will ask how you would know he’s serious for marriage but the truth is this; if you have a clear agenda before going into any relationship the signs will always give you the answer. No woman in her thirties with her right senses will pray for a boyfriend, but the truth is this, this is what they should have done when they were much younger but because they fail to realize that they’ve gotten to that marriage able age they stick to having a boyfriend rather than seeking for a husband thereby wasting precious time on baseless relationships.

 

If you’re a woman in your twenties do away with boyfriends, set a goal for yourself, seek a husband and when a guy comes around and he’s coming with a boyfriend attitude let him go so you won’t have to come blame your stupidity on love saying words like all “men are the same”

 

All men are the same to you because the reason you need a man in your life are the same and this is because you keep failing to understand what you need at your age.

 

Boyfriend and girlfriend issues should be left to teenagers. The moment you fail to realize that you’ve outgrown that age the more problem you keep having in finding a husband since your reasoning is still like that of a child.

 

Don’t waste your time hanging out with kids when you shouldn’t be doing so.

“Finding a husband is not as difficult as you think but knowing the right point when you should start seeking for one is”.

 

Most women have made this mistake which has led them to that stage where age is no longer on their side and all they can pray for is just any man to propose. Desperation then sets in and immediately they come across any man they hold on to him tight with the thought of if they allow him slip away they might never find another one just because age is no longer friendly to them. This is what they should have done back then when they had that golden opportunity but they never realized it and that is what has brought them to this mercy state.

 

Always spell it out, don’t waste your time chasing boyfriends when you should be chasing husbands. If you’re in your twenties boyfriend is not what you need. Don’t allow an unserious person destroy your future and don’t also destroy your beautiful life just because you fail to realize what you need. The moment you realize what you need in life the closer you are to your freedom. Setting wrong agenda will lead you into danger and hurt.

 

Love is beautiful and all men are not the same. All you need is realize what you want, set your goal and work towards achieving them.

 

 

 

a boyfriend is not what you need

Posted: February 25, 2014 in Uncategorized

By Kesta Tipsy. Kesta Tipsy Tipsy is an independent researcher on sex and relationship issues, an educator and a writer. it’s a beautiful piece y’all men and women should read through. enjoy!

 

Every relationship has its aim, goals and aspirations, but most people, despite the fact that they know what they want from the onset, keep falling into the danger of heartbreak and rejection, thereby destroying their future and wasting time with someone they know won’t ordinarily fulfill those dreams. We go into relationships with the hope of getting married to that person we claim to love but in the long run we choose to waste our time even when we know that those dreams won’t be fulfilled. A woman in her twenties is ripe for marriage from all indications, but it never ceases to amaze me that despite this fact you still find such women talk of boyfriends instead of husbands. They pray to have boyfriends and because they fail to set out a clear goal for themselves, they feel a boyfriend is just what they need. When you come across a guy, if the goal you set out for yourself is that of finding a husband, the moment you sense the guy is coming with a boyfriend attitude there’s no point trying to see what he’s up to. It simply shows both of you are not on the same page at that point. The best thing to do is to let him go. Failure to do so will amount to you wasting your time with someone that isn’t ready for what you want and leaving you hurt in the end. When women go into such union knowing fully well that they are not on the same page, they later turn to complain that men are all the same forgetting that what brought them that hurt is because they never defined what they wanted in that relationship. Does it make sense to you if a guy wants to get married and you are not ready deep down or the goal you are setting is not towards that direction don’t you think he’s just wasting his time with you. I know many of you will ask how you would know he’s serious for marriage but the truth is this; if you have a clear agenda before going into any relationship the signs will always give you the answer. No woman in her thirties with her right senses will pray for a boyfriend, but the truth is this, this is what they should have done when they were much younger but because they fail to realize that they’ve gotten to that marriage able age they stick to having a boyfriend rather than seeking for a husband thereby wasting precious time on baseless relationships. If you’re a woman in your twenties do away with boyfriends, set a goal for yourself, seek a husband and when a guy comes around and he’s coming with a boyfriend attitude let him go so you won’t have to come blame your stupidity on love saying words like all “men are the same” All men are the same to you because the reason you need a man in your life are the same and this is because you keep failing to understand what you need at your age. Boyfriend and girlfriend issues should be left to teenagers. The moment you fail to realize that you’ve outgrown that age the more problem you keep having in finding a husband since your reasoning is still like that of a child. Don’t waste your time hanging out with kids when you shouldn’t be doing so. “Finding a husband is not as difficult as you think but knowing the right point when you should start seeking for one is”. Most women have made this mistake which has led them to that stage where age is no longer on their side and all they can pray for is just any man to propose. Desperation then sets in and immediately they come across any man they hold on to him tight with the thought of if they allow him slip away they might never find another one just because age is no longer friendly to them. This is what they should have done back then when they had that golden opportunity but they never realized it and that is what has brought them to this mercy state.  Always spell it out, don’t waste your time chasing boyfriends when you should be chasing husbands. If you’re in your twenties boyfriend is not what you need. Don’t allow an unserious person destroy your future and don’t also destroy your beautiful life just because you fail to realize what you need. The moment you realize what you need in life the closer you are to your freedom. Setting wrong agenda will lead you into danger and hurt. Love is beautiful and all men are not the same. All you need is realize what you want, set your goal and work towards achieving them. Categories Life Abroad Nigeria Matters Relationships & Gender Interviews & Profiles Africa & World Introspective Arts & Reviews Position Papers Business & Economy Personal Development Science & Technology Religion & Philosophy Health & Environment Travel & Leisure Lifestyle & Fashion Sports Education Miscellaneous Copyright 2014 Nigerians In America. All rights reserved.

IRRESISTIBLE GENERATION

Posted: February 24, 2014 in Uncategorized

The hour has come for the people of irresistible Influence to take their place and begin to manifest and fulfil the mandate of knowing Christ and Making Him known!!

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A generation of an IRRESISTIBLE Influence? Can we have such a generation of people? Oh! YES!!! A group of people whose mien, actions and decisions are indeed influential to others around them. Not just influential but irresistible.

A set of personalities whose spirit-filled lives become the mirror which others in the world jostle to utilise and mark as yardstick. Lives that will be change agents. Indeed propellers of innovative ideas and progress. Persons that will stand tall above corruption, average-minded thought process, pessimists and believers in mediocrity.

In this world of perverseness, sorcery, nudity, inflamed passion for media buzz and social networking, the youthful generation is indeed being caught by the bug. Many a lives are pining away. A generation budding is that which spend eternity on social networks just uploading pictures of ‘achievements’ they term ‘landmarks’. Asides being emergency photo men, they vigorously keep tabs on the ephemeral things…

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